Most leadership advice for women is designed to make them easier to tolerate, not more powerful.
In this episode of Localization Fireside Chat, I sat down with Marsha Clark for one of the most important conversations this show has hosted about women, leadership, and what it really means to claim your voice in rooms that were not built for you.
Marsha has spent decades working with women in organizations that say they want equality while still rewarding silence, compliance, and overwork. Her work is not about helping women fit in. It is about helping them take up space.
The myth of “just work harder”
One of the biggest lies women are told in corporate environments is that excellence alone will be rewarded.
Marsha explains why this is not how power actually works.
Men are taught to self promote.
Women are taught to self justify.
Women wait to be noticed.
Men assume they belong.
The result is not a skills gap.
It is a confidence and permission gap.
Women who do not advocate for themselves are often invisible, no matter how competent they are.
Why women are punished for the same behavior
Marsha speaks directly about the double bind women face.
When women are assertive, they are labeled difficult.
When men are assertive, they are seen as leaders.
When women set boundaries, they are seen as uncooperative.
When men do it, they are seen as decisive.
This creates a constant emotional tax. Women spend enormous energy managing how they are perceived instead of focusing on their impact.
That is why so many talented women burn out or opt out.
Power starts with voice
At the heart of Marsha’s work is one principle.
You do not get power by waiting for permission.
You get it by using your voice.
She teaches women how to speak with clarity, authority, and presence. Not louder. Not more aggressive. More grounded.
That means:
• Saying what you think without apologizing
• Asking for what you want without softening
• Taking credit without guilt
• Setting boundaries without fear
These are not personality traits. They are leadership skills.
Why this matters now
As organizations talk about diversity, equity, and inclusion, Marsha is clear about one thing.
Representation without power is decoration.
Putting women in the room does nothing if they are not heard, funded, promoted, and respected.
The real work is not inviting women in.
It is changing how leadership is defined.
This conversation is a challenge to organizations that want the benefits of diverse leadership without changing the structures that silence it.
And it is a call to women to stop shrinking to fit systems that were never designed for them.
Watch the full conversation
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Robin Ayoub 
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